Happy Mother’s Day. The one day of the year where we can all stop and recognize our mom’s for all they do and have done for us along the way. They teach us many of life’s most important lessons. They do it in a way that creates lasting impressions along with that second voice in our head that asks, “what would mom think?” And while father’s instill their own brand of leadership lessons (stay tuned for June), here are few that I have learned specifically from my mom that have helped me be a better person and leader:
- Empathy. Until recently empathy in the workplace, especially in a leadership role was viewed as a weakness. Soft. Being empathetic meant you weren’t able to make the tough choices. However, over the past decade a great deal of research has been done that’s revealed the most effective leaders are empathetic. The ability to feel and understand others emotions. It’s the piece that allows you to connect on a deeper level with those you work with. This is something I learned from mom.
- Forgiveness. We all make mistakes. Some are bigger than others. Recognizing an honest mistake versus malicious intent is critical. Honest mistakes happen every day, and will likely occur in all our lives until the end of time. Understanding the mistake, its intent, its impact, and the lesson learned is where the act of forgiveness comes in. Mistakes happen in every workplace, on everyday of the year. Some mistakes are small with no material impact to the business while others can be quite costly. Focusing on the mistake itself and not the person is something I learned from my mom.
- Faith. The ability to strongly believe in something with conviction is faith. Be it in ourselves, others, or God, faith represents one of a handful of traits that separates human beings from all other animals on the planet. When all the strategizing and planning is complete, a leader must have faith in him or herself, and the team they lead, that they will be able to execute their plan to achieve the desired outcome. The ability to believe in, or hope for, something better is something I learned from my mom.
There are many other lessons I’ve learned from my mom yet these three stand out. She’s taught me a lot in my first 46 years and I’m sure there’s much more to learn in the next 46!
Have a great Mother’s Day. (Love you mom!)